At this point, my arm had been up for 40 minutes, I was balancing on one foot, and I was on stage with four other people. Out of the 300 that started.
The ache in my arm was numb….but my calf felt like it was going to break in two as my fine motor muscles worked so hard to try and keep me balanced so that I could obtain my vision of winning the Grand Prize, a $10,000 VIP day that would help me completely transform as a person, coach, and teacher.
Right there amidst it all, literally right next to me on stage, was my dear friend, Cole Bombino, certified health coach and yoga teacher.
She and I practice together almost every day–if not in a physical yoga practice then in an intention-setting exercise that we implement early every morning to spiritually and energetically align with our vision and our day’s intentions.
Even at the beginning of this challenging physical exercise in stamina, she and I actually started breathing in unison.
Her breath, her energy, and her presence helped me feel safe and it helped me feel strong. I mentioned in Part 1 of this story that my vision was so strong and kept me so focused that I was even able to withstand nearly unbearable physical pain in order to achieve what was an important goal to me.
When we were called on stage, with our arms out and shoulders aching, Cole and I stood together in solidarity, breathing as one strong whole–a whole that was much, much stronger than the sum of its component parts.
And my singular connection to my vision only got me so far.
Without Cole there, I know for a fact that I would have given up much, much sooner.
They say there is power in numbers, power in community. Cole, in that moment, and so much in my life, is my community. Because of her support and constant energy, I succeed every day, and because of her support and energy at that challenging moment in time, I was one of the last contestants standing for this enormous prize.
In my next post, I will reveal Surprise #3…. and THE OUTCOME!!!!
In the meantime, how could you start to cultivate a stronger community? Do you find it difficult to constantly stay connected to your vision, your ultimate reason for why you do what you do? In what ways do you “give up” or “drop the ball” where you may not have if you had someone who bolstered you in moments of weakness?
Let me know in the comments below, along with the action step you will take to create a partnership, a mentorship, or a peer community in your life that will support you right at those moments when, as one of my amazingly brilliant coaches says, you feel like you’re going to “give up five minutes before the miracle happens.”
Much love and Namasté!